DISCIPLINING YOUR CHILDREN: "If I whoop my son, I go to jail. If I let him keep doing what he's
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DISCIPLINING YOUR CHILDREN: "If I whoop my son, I go to jail. If I let him keep doing what he's doing, I get in trouble," said the dad of a 9-year-old who has stolen cars and stowed away on a flight to Las Vegas.
The dad said that one of the times the police brought his son back home, he was told he would go to jail if he spanked the child.
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[meghan baxter] - There's a difference between discipline and child abuse.
[victoria lani-nikkel malispina] - No we need to discipline our kids now so prison guards wont have to later
[gabe rodriguez] - There are many ways of learning. Some kids don't learn unless they get whooped. Sometimes fear needs to be put in children. I see all these spoiled mindless kids wandering the streets connected to devices with no real sense of urgency, discipline or motivation.
[bruce clausen] - Beat their ass, go to jail, show ur kids ur not afraid of going to jail.
[karla villalobos] - Here's my way discipline: I givegiven daughter 3warnings to do what it is being asked. If by the 3 warning she doesn't listen I count to 5 after five she knows what she's getting. Usually she does it by the count of 2.
This why kids throw tantrums and talk back in public to parents in public because no matter how mad or pissed off the parents get there's nothing they can do. They smack thier kids and you have someone calling the police saying they are abusing thier kids -__- for those who say spanking isn't a solution must not have kids -_- because I turned out ok.
[victoria lani-nikkel malispina] - I have tried positive reinforcement. I have tried distracting my son. Focus his attention elsewhere. All the great things first my last resort is spanking but it has happened and boy he learned real fast moms not gonna let his crap fly. He has hit me in the face in front of a whwhole grocery store checkout and I smacked him back immedieatly....I will not ttolerate such disrespect. He hasn't hit me in the face again.
[jason barlow] - When they had pattles in school there werent all these school shootings, thats all I have to say
[alicia lovato] - I think it's funny how people want to blame the parents there are some parents that are at fault but there is some situations that the parents have tried everything. We ask for help, we put them in therapy, we go to parenting classes with the children and the kids still mess up. So people need to stop judging before they know the situation
[victoria lani-nikkel malispina] - Kids these days need more ass whoopings. They need to be fearful of consequences.
[rosina barou] - Spanking came from paradise! I was spanked, when I was young and I turned out great. I am not saying beat your kid to death, but a little bit of spanking is good. This is the problem with our youth nowadays, they have nothing to be fearful about.
[daniel l cameron] - Spanking is not supposed to be illegal, but beating is. There is a difference, so if the officer told the dad that he couldn't spank, I think the officer had misinformation.
[erik lualemana] - I'd go to jail if it meant my kids won't in the future! Break him off!
[ernie magallan] - This is a pussy generation all the kids are spoiled and when they get in trouble their parents can't even spank them nothing it's bs love this country but hate the way it's changing
[suzie woods] - Three whacks on the bare butt with a wooden spoon...there's a BIG difference between discipline and abuse....
[reyna crystalinas] - "Unos buenos cintarasos es lo que nesecitan"
[diana milan linares] - Every Family is different ....... Some believe in punishment by time-outs lol Most of the time that-doesn't work.. That's a joke !.. Talking to kids well if its teenagers it goes thru one ear and thru the other ear.. Spanking can be abuse only if its Brutal Where neighbors can hear you.. Bruising isn't disciplining your children it's abuse .... If you keep it to a decent force well I see nothing wrong with it....( I personally don't like spanking my kids, but if they disobey me where I think it's time for a good spanking then I will use my hands).... ;) I don't need any object to spank my kids.. Unless ofcourSe there's a Chancla near by lol
[victoria lani-nikkel malispina] - A few dirty looks and a threat to call cps wasnt stopping me. A few older veteran grandparents actually applauded me for standing my ground.
[meli meli] - Ill go to jail for spanking my kids as long as it keeps my kids out of jail in their future. Discipline & Child Abuse are 2 different things.
[alicia lovato] - I was told by officers several times that it is ok to spank my kids as long as I do not leave bruises. Sometimes kids need that cuz nothing else works. The kids themselves think they have you in their hands just cuz the parents could get in trouble for hitting them.
[gaby solorzano] - Spank them without evidence! Duh
[kookie monsta] - Discipline is the key!!!! Examples Talking, Belt, Spanking, Chanclas, kneeling with arms up against the wall( timeout) but once that boundary is crossed we're you kid don't listen at all Bootcamp/Juvie/jail but explain the reason behind decision.
[suzie woods] - And NONE of my kids turned out violent...they are all good kids...all grown up...but they DID mind me...
[cassandra elizabeth tharp] - When I was 9 i didn't even take a soda without asking.
[karla villalobos] - I agree with everyone who says "there's a difference between abusive and spanking" trust me spanking these days are not so bad. When I was little I spanked with anything that was nearby lol
[laura carpio tzintzun] - Educate yourselves and you'll see that spanking is not the solution. And yes people spanking is consider child abuse in case you didn't know. Learn about possitive discipline...
[cynthia santistevan] - its called a pinchi chinga . I turned out ok so did my kids
[mary pat kolupski] - Kids NEED discipline. So many parents do not do it.
[brad goad] - To many people think spanking is abuse. Learn your laws. Hard to make a choice when you don't know what the choices are.
[franca taylor voegelin] - "Discipline" and "Punishment" are two completely different things. One happens before and the other happens after. Discipline is a far more effective tool but so many parents (and animal owners!!!) completely ignore discipline and rely solely on punishment. That's how you create chronic misbehavior.
[sarah furtado sims] - Discipline starts as a young child, using time out and talking out the problem would help. Children do things for attention, beating them makes them act out worse!! Get the child some therapy something is clearly bothering him!!
[brandi renee] - To be honest, I do not believe spanking is the effective way to raise children. However, there are some parents who feel that in order to discipline their kids and should have the right to do so. There is a fine line between discipline and abuse. It is obvious this child wouldn't have straightened up if he was spanked. Spanking is for behavior like disrespecting an adult or writing on the wall with markers. Stealing two cars requires a different type of discipline, like juvenile hall.
[lynda reyna] - As a former childcare worker I tell you this Spanking is not a crime but leaving welts bruises or any kind of make will get you at least an open case with CPS. Also make sure that the punishment fits the crime. And as far as disciplining in public really do you want to draw any negative attention your way with technology as advanced as it is today things are often taken out of context number one and you dont know what experience the people around you have gone through in their lives which may make them uncomfortable by an angry or frustrated parent and their probably uncontrollable child. I remember growing up my parents had this routine my father unable to find parking and my mother turned completely around faceing us going over the same spiel" No Running No horseplaying No touching things Do Not put anything in your pockets.....ect ect..AND MOST OF ALL DO NOT AND I REAPEAT DO ANYTHING TO EMBARRASS MOM OR DAD OR OUR OUTING WILL BE OVER" right as she spoke her last words dad happend to find a perfect.parking this was reapeated each and everytime. I now do this with my own and have never had to leave on account of my girls acting out.
[lynda reyna] - Honestly people Its not about spanking because Violence teaches Violence!!!
[marixza espinoza] - There's a difference between disciplining and abuse.
[jodi short martinez] - Spank him he needs to know limits and structure and if the big wigs don't like it let them raise the little booger...
[jxrmvinx wvllvcx] - Very true , you should be able to spank your kids, cause that is how they learn they did wrong, you can tell em no, but odds are they will do it again because the lack of disciplinary action, it worked for me, and im pretty many can vouch it did for them as well
[xtina medina] - Idk why the officer would tell him that! Its LEGAL to spank your child !!!
[rob bennett] - Be a parent. Stop making excuses for their CONDITIONED bad behavior
[danny yayo] - i whoop all my kids yolo
[raul palacio] - If there old enough to talk back there old enough to get f*cked up.
[howard tanner] - I was spanked, I survived it. it was'nt THAT traumatic and my Mom left me in jail for a night to teach me a lesson. Today at 60 years old, i am a thankful,honest man who's NOT still in jail who loved his kids enough to discipline them also. As a godly man, the scripture teaches if you don't bring that "rod" across that backside,it says you hate your child...
[priest wofford owens] - Sounds like Dad needs to "whoop" his butt!
[arnaldo pardo] - Spare the rod spoil the child. That's old school.
[pennie hernandez] - Scolding a child in public in some places creates problems from onlookers... the person scolding the child gets yelled at and people call 911 reporting the parent as 'abusing' their child. WHEN people butt out of other peoples lives when its minor, fine... but only call 911 IF it really warrants a call... not just because the parent is scolding their child in front of you. (true story)
[yolanda murphy] - I spank real good to make it worth it.
[israel meza] - It's a lose lose situation for parents.
[bill robertson] - Dig a 6' hole... scare the crap out of the kid.
[kathryn halley eastman] - It was found in California tht whooping your older kid with a wooden spoon when they need it IS LEGAL!!!!
[brenda levario] - I think you just have to figure out what works for you and you kids .. See what they respond too ...sorry to say it but sometimes it take up alot of time ,energy,paticence, and stamina to show your kids they will not do as they please!! I think maybe somtimes we do have to get so outside help... But at the end i believe we as parents must set the standard fom the start and and pay more attention when our kids are stiil young.
[diana milan linares] - I use the Evil eye tactic & I yell... Lol that seems to work! ;D Ask me if children still disobey me?.. Nope
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[jason barlow] - spare the rod spoil the child
[joe huynh] - I bet you that all police officers spank their children n do not go to jail. Cops only arrest civilians that spank their children!
[ryan berry] - Call that drill sergeant dude from the Maury show..
[cassandra elizabeth tharp] - While theres other forms of discipline. Its bullsh** that you can't spank your own child.
[jennifer c wigon] - Spoil the child and spare the rod...ummmm that's not working. I remember when I was a child I was spanked by the neighbors!!
[michael myers] - shove him back from where he came from
[celiasue hecht] - the kid needs to get consequences for his actions (just like the GOP), NO MORE TV, video games, or whatever
[jesus raider espinoza] - Chanclasos do the trick..
[tony barba] - People blame video games and such for violence and gang behavior, but you tell me what video game they have been playing for 500 years? In my opinion the people that are supposed to keep us safe (police, government, ect) have screwed up so bad they have influenced today's youth in a negative ways. The very thing that's preached over and over again "two wrongs don't make a right", "treat people how you wanna be treated" has been tainted by a hypocritical system with flaws that won't be corrected because possible negative public perception. In other words they don't want to admit they were wrong. It is what it is.. In the end they're your kids.. You either discipline them now or they will do it for you, wait but didn't they say he would go to jail for it if he did it now.. Perfect example see what I mean...
[rajiv kumar] - give him a option if you don't wanna live by my rules the doors open... if u wanna live here then don't act stupid.
[felipa de leon] - We should discipline the government. lol
[mitzi camacho] - My parents didn't spank me, they gave a punishment that was more effective called, "Chingadasos" by whooping me with the choice of the infamous "chancla" or the belt buckle.
[carole perryman] - Sounds that this child was running away from something unpleasant at home!
[stephanie diaz] - I got disciplined as a child with the belt only when I really misbehaved. If I talked back I got a slap to my mouth. Look at me now. I'm in my second semester of college doing well. I honestly believe sometimes disciplining a child is necessary. Each child is different. Some learn by using time out methods or some learn like myself by getting hit. But there is a huge difference between disciplining and abusing.
[jonathan cervantes] - Have you ever thought about just turning off the TV, sitting with your children, and just hitting them?
[sal martinez] - Kids these days are pussys!!! U can't discipline nobody now adays
[patricia blick] - Yeah this world sucks now !
[arnaldo pardo] - Sounds to me like someone needs a smack down.
[lynda reyna] - Seriously we have to think of our children as small living growing plants from day one. We have to nurture shape and mold our children very early on. If you wait for a season then that is way too late at times because some have very strong characters while others may be docile. Yet it is up to us to correct our children with love and respect yet with firmness. Finally if our children DO NOT respect their parents then when they go out into the world there is no chance that they will respect authority of any kind.
[julie buceti ragland] - It sounds like the police need the spanking.
[richie reefer andazola] - And pls pls don't ever count to make yr kids listen 1, 2, 3 haha .. That's crazy . Shooooot , now means now ! Don't make me get up !
[terry gardner mora] - Does anyone else see prison in that kids future? Spanking? Here, it's kinda too little too late. Good luck to his dad and to him. :(
[aaron rutledge] - Military school! It's not for everyone.
[tzz borja] - I feel sorry for this dad, I think military school might help his boy but maybe its a show for dr phill
[jessica black rodgers] - If you get to the point where you have to physically hit someone, you've failed. We don't allow adults to "whoop" each other - that's assault - why would we let people hit kids? Logic fail.
[ivan duran] - Thanks God I was disciplined by my parents I look back how it keen me out trouble ..
[carlos lara] - The laws suck they protect the wrong people in our society. If my son us doing wrong yes I am going to get the belt and make him know it instead of letting think that he got away with it and some day end up in jail then what is he going to think of me then..
[marcos galvan] - que le de unas nalgadas a guey
[joseph pastrana] - Then don't bail him out! If does the crime let him do the time!
[carole perryman] - How is spanking going to help? Many other methods to help this kid such as counseling, etc.
[eduardo rojas] - Un día escuche unas palabras así corrijan a los niños ahora para que no castiguen a los hombres....
[ruth j clark] - Hopefully he gets the help he needs.
[raymond enriquez] - Try get this kid on one of those scared straight shows. It works for some.
[gabriel burruel hernandez] - When we adopted our son, the social services had us sign a contract saying we wouldn't spank him...
[cindy marie eckstine] - Your #1 job, Being A Parent!!!!
[cindy marie eckstine] - They say the apple don't fall far from the tree...My daughter is 9yrs 'old ..If she even thought about stealing a car,I can't even comprehend ...9yrs old???
[cybil maldonado] - Bust out the belt when the cop leaves. In a way this guy is full of it because he knows his son deserves to get a good spanking.
[jaime clark] - Every child is different.
[richie reefer andazola] - The Academy award winning three 6 mafia says it best "whoop that trick" "whoop that trick" jk .. Its a fine line . There is many ways of discipline. It's about being a real parent and finding out what works best . Whopping them could backfire . And that goes for not whooping them . Your the parent , figure it out .
[chris dietrich] - Oh he so needs to get a whupping no ifs and buts about take his little freak behind right to Juvie he wants bad let him have it
[morgan mason] - Leatrice Brewer and Kasey Anthony had far different strategies..Plus made 350,000.00 for their stories.