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Ladies, your man can't treat you like a queen if you're too busy trying to be the king. Learn how to #leta_manbeaman
(Type: status | Published: 2013-05-03T00:01:39+0000)
[miandmibabies demplez] - Amen enuff said.
[shonte wooten] - Please these men dnt even know how to make them damn selves happy well some of em not all
[nicole isisma'at brown] - Boom went the dynamite
[teresa do'nthefitnessthing green] - Good advice BUT .... you when we do most of 'em take advantage of it
[andre willis] - true, now these some good women here! I count 4 so far! That understand" and I bet y'all have a healthy relationship?
[tracie d. wiggins-walker] - Im learning this the hard way today.
[shann snm mitchell] - Know your roll & stay in it
[sharese timeforsomechanges] - A lil challenging for me. Most my life I had to fight boys, stand for myself, protect myself. I like to let him lead just need to trust where I'm being lead. Can't hurt me then say follow me cuz I won't go for that.
[april williams] - well wats a man so I can calm down..... lol
[shonte wooten] - Lol April Im high five u on that
[ask aligna] - If you're the man then get a damn vision! Where we going? What we doing? Men of old had no problem being a man they were raised taught by men and had vision with purpose. Men need to step it up look at other ethnic groups men are leading brothers get it together
[jennifer jeanne] - This isn't the 1950s and a lady is a lady unless she puts ona strap on and tries to f*ck him up the ass. Lol. Don't you men want an independent woman who holds her own financially and contributes 50/50 all the way around? Lol. I've seen alot of men who are freeloaders and don't act like a king though too.
[rob g yofavritogsfavritog] - So tru...this why relationships are failing
[peach tree] - Boom! In dat order!
[brenda houston] - whoop there it is say it all day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
[james friend] - Good stuff !!!!!
[jay hill] - What !please repeat ......true shit
[sean deans] - Thats all they have to do
[rod davis-hayden] - This seems to be the biggest challenge for some of the ladies today...
[quita thompson] - This is my problem
[matthew darkkrazyman moore] - How right is that!? Lol
[thelma ewing] - So true!! I know a few like that.
[jennifer crawford] - POW...Real words!
[rob g yofavritogsfavritog] - Reading these comments & see MALE BASHING...yet I bet ALL OF THESE WOMEN are SINGLE and its all the mans fault as usual. Women dont hav the emotional strength to find fault in themselves for anything. If ur NEVER WRONG u'll NEVER MAKE CORRECTIONS...keep in mind...WOMEN ARE WALKING AROUND MISERABLE N UNHAPPY..NOT THE MEN
[sean deans] - Jennifer pulling your share of the weight and trying to act like your the boss are two different things the MAN runs the household not the woman all the woman gotta do is play her position and hold her man down but nowadays females act like they are giving up their independence but a real man will make you feel like his partner not his slave
[tha king] - YES!!!!U NOOO...
[shaila baker] - U BETTER SAY IT! reality check!, well I pray that they lead like their suppose 2! L<3 ve a black man! still searching/waiting 4 my king!
[marvin marshall] - April williams a man is where you come from and get your name from#woman. Most of ya probably dykes anyway
[desiree melancon] - alot of men have to be asked to handle what they to get fine, reminded.. Constantly. Don't ends do shit unless asked, if they would step up and play their role, women wouldn't be stressing as much we have too. Not saying all men are this way.
[rob g yofavritogsfavritog] - Talking and trying to explain to a know it all woman is pointless..they chose wrong men...so perfer to leave where I met them....miserable. Its not my DUTY to save a woman from her self imposed misery...on to the next #SINGLE N MINGLE N
[melissa martinez] - this can only be accomplished with real men & not boys. proudly know my role.
[jennifer jeanne] - Nobody is the boss but some men can't handle an independent women who has a mind of her own. A real relationship is equal all the way around
[elisha yanes] - Its only one crown
[lashonda welch] - messing with alot of these men u will be homeless moneyless hopeless sometimes a woman has to take the lead to make it shit times hard and nowadays i see a woman doing way better that the man she with and that includes financially also just saying its like that sometimes but not all the time!!
[veronica gray] - It took me a longgg time to get this. And it is true. If you have a real man in your life, let him be a man and step back. Stepping back is not a negative.
[kayley aue] - That's why I appreciate my king...its his duty to court the relationship and I must say he does it well...
[patricia jordan-stallworth] - You need to say that again
[shana quirk] - truth I don't want to be king #princess in waiting I am a daughter of the King of Kings
[cory pierce] - Always by god the king of the castle...but I'm still the BOSS!
[dana dane] - Wow......wat a statement
[justcallmems spear] - Everyone is going to defend what they believe to be true bcuz of their experiences. If ppl would take the time to get to know one another and learn to respect each other relationships would grow naturally into what theu need to be in order to be successful. Trials will come but a good foundation will stand the test of time and lines in the sand won't have to be drawn. Just bcuz a cliche has stod the test of time that doesn't make it true....
[karyssa klutts] - Been having a hard time with this lately. Me and the Mr been butting heads cuz I've been overstepping my role a bit. I'm a strong willed and outspoken woman but I kno u can be such and still stay in Ur role in the relationship.
[stacey jones] - This is the result of growing up without fathers in their lives and seeing that man take charge. And then having to run their own households alone.
[dolapo decker] - Where I come from been a man/king is making a woman your slave,no respect,abuse,and we all expected to shut up when they cheat cause that's how "God made them", they don't like independent women,and if you have a mind of your own your avoided like a plague! No thank u,ill do what works for me,ill be my king and queen! Aint no kings in Nigeria just slave drivers!
[justcallmems spear] - Question tho what's a women's role in the relationship. ...
[karen sherman] - No,problem if he knows how to lead-some men can't handle that responsibility!!
[al dnell mason] - I knew majority of the women will disagree on this, but this is really true, yes there are some ignorant men as well ignorant women, but this statement is a fact
[mahogany crawford] - Im proud to be the neck n not the head...willing to follow the right lead...love being a woman...love a man who knows n understands not only his role but mine as his woman#WordsofWoman
[niva cintron] - Everyone has Good points at the need. Of the day everyone in the relationship need. To play there part but sometimes a woman has to step up to help her man if he can't be the liter a king will always need he's queen and will always need. Her king can't have. One without the other
[stacey jones] - In reality if this is the case a woman is not suppose to work outside the home. In today's world this is not likely going to work. In a lot of homes the mom is the bread winner. So a lot of things have to change!
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[niva cintron] - Sorry if I misspell anything talking into my phone
[justcallmems spear] - It amazes me that as ppl we do not think for ourselves we live by cliches and don't rey and figure out what worka for the individual. We get into relationship s and expect cliches to hold the relarionship down bcuz that is what we r told our whole lives. Who said being behind someone or beneath someone is self fulfilling. Empower each other. No one canead all the rime and u can't always follow #freethinker
[marvin marshall] - @Lashonda Welch thats the men ya choosing if ppl get to know the men before giving up ass and pussy you wouldnt have that problem. Its sumn you doing why you feel that way or why you attracting those types of guys. Kim kardashion will beg to differ you see what she like lol
[brite eyes henry-channer] - If men act like Man! Then we ladies will stop trying to play both roles...its Sad how the men of this generation are..no longer do women depend on men bcuz some of them treat u like shit wen u do...now some women fight for independency bcuz of wat they had to put up with these boys..its hard to tell the men from boys nowadays...so can't blame us really..!! U sit bk nd let em be a man nd they never change.....
[tika ohsojazzi] - I was just thinking this the other day...sometimes all a man need is his woman to make him feel like he's needed and wanted!!
[michael howard] - This is true that why its called kingdom.
[caitlyn allen] - I don't need a king to treat me like a queen, I need a partner to treat me like we can figure anything out... Together. Men have actually told me that they don't like the fact that they don't feel like I "need" them. But I'm a single mom, if I don't hold my family down who will? I need to find a man who doesn't want to stand behind or in front of me, but next to me. Holding my hand ;)
[laurie bragg] - i cant wait to meet a man who wants to step up and BE a real man.....my 50 yr old ex thinks he's still 25 lolol
[nicole elaine tubbs] - I will, as soon as I find a real man. Not someone who tried to keep me from my degree, ruin my relationship with my family and spend time lying. Until then, I am the king and queen of my home. God has got this.
[murkcity reestyle] - And the church says Amen!!!!
[justcallmems spear] - And still no one can tell me what roke is a woman supposed to play in a relationship. How can u agree witht the statement if u can't define it. Dont be sheep define urselves
[doug wynn] - Some women do that
[jesslyn stayner] - How can a man say he needs a queen when he don't even know how to be a king. Smh
[omari belk] - There is so much bitterness in the fucking world. The comment was a message for both genders to feed off and grow on. If you took it the wrong way, go take a look in the mirror. Please..¡
[sean deans] - And telling you to play your position doesnt make you any less in the relationship thats the whole point as a man all i ask you to do is take care of my house help raise the kids and sex me on the regular while im out here workin my ass off to provide for you and them whats so hard about that? And a real man dont want a woman without a mind of her own all you can do with a puppet is play with it
[sean deans] - What your describing jennifer is a little boy
[catherine colalella] - Thats hard to do when a man dont want to be a man
[kenny meares] - All these girls saying a man can't be a man.. Maybe it's bc he don't wanna be THAT man for a girl who claims to be a woman smh c' mon now
[christy ward] - All these men talking about while they out there making money, a real woman out there making money also SO.... That's saying nothing
[krystle price] - Well I agree with the other ladies comments guys need to be leader and some pose as leaders and be the freeloaders
[sean deans] - Christy you sound like a little girl that is saying something
[meshia frison] - Sighs..... Ok #truthspoken
[zenobia green] - IM ABOUT TO GO IN!!! SOMEBODY PREACHING!!!
[nina grimes] - That is so true
[azia burnett] - How about if you just remove the titles and the roles society has placed and call it what it is. Its a man and a woman, a relationship, a family. Where 2 people are equal,
one is no more or less important, and what one is willing to do for the other, the other is willing to do back. A woman was not placed in this world to live the only life she is given to cater to a mans needs. If I go to work all day and you go to work all day where has it ever been right that a man thinks he comes home, kicks his feet up, and his days work is done while he is expecting his woman to then come home, take care of the kids, cook the family dinner, clean the house, ect. Point is if you want a better woman in your life you need first to stop treating them as if they are beneath you. We call them "bitch balls" and all that is is a woman having a mind of her own. Standing up for what she believes in cause men try to take that from them. Men have control issues. They need to not only control the home but they feel they have the right to control anothers life. "No life's worth more than any other. No sister worth less than any brother" period. Lol nothing to do with growing up without a father.
[sean deans] - Like why are all you ladies acting like following a man is the worst thing ever half of yall dont have a MAN because your too stubborn to sit down and be a lady yall wanna be the boss bitch like grow up and think like a grown woman all that other stuff is immature high school nonsense
[aneesah dryver] - Lol this sounds like a bunch of Steve Harvey nonsense.
[nina grimes] - That's true but!!!!
[sheena mccants] - If more men step up and be king the queen can retire her throne
[nina grimes] - I know it's mine
[james g. adams jr.] - Aint that the truth
[shuntell sirenyti barr] - Men and women are not equal. We were not designed to be equal. I was taught that the man was the head of the house. As a man, you are to be a leader and leaders walk ahead not beside. We as women were formed for you by God to assist not lead. Now sometimes as women we are so afraid to trust someone to lead us that we tell ourselves that men don't know where they're going. Thinking that we will let go of our control and power not even realizing that it is through us that they discover themselves. We are so afraid that we will go unnoticed if we submit! But women you are Queens, a man does even know who he is until he knows what type of woman he wants. We complete them. Men, you are so terrified to lead that you never command the respect due to you. command and not demand. You see a man who commands doesn't need word...his presence say respect me because I was design to reign, and King you were.
[gretchen smith] - Men need 2 EARN that honor!!!
[tiffany re'anna henry] - Truth !!! I am seeing a lot of comments saying men should be men like WTf is a man ? I mean seriously? To be honest if I was a man I wouldn't want to be with someone that would put me down and make me feel less than! I am happily married and for NO reason will I ever step on my husbands toes In a power struggle ! I support him and all he does to keep our family ahead ..sure I could do his job but why? That's why I married a strong man so that I wouldn't have to worry about certain things ! Society is the one That have women the ideas of being ruler
[ashley cassidy] - Being a lady isn't a matter of gender. Not all women are ladies, just like not all men are gentlemen. If women want a gentlemen, then they need to be a lady. If men want a lady, then they need to be a gentleman.
[ashley cassidy] - It's not meant to be equal. We have different roles, but that doesn't make the relationship any less "real" or loving. Having a mind of your own is not the same thing as trying to dictate. That cannot be a woman's excuse, because they are two very different things.
[godonu washin] - Better both should overstand their Role, but Man be the Head, JAH said so
[mario da troof campbell] - You missed the whole point all together
[mario da troof campbell] - Reading these comments its not hard to figure out why a lot of you women are single mothers and bitter, you having babies with the low budget nigga's and try to put all men in the same category, when in all actuality, you are untaught.....check yo shit, instead of playing the blame game, the best fuckin you get, you fuck yaself
[jennifer jeanne] - I don't think so...it's a matter if interpretation
[alonza byrd] - You so damn right.
[ondre anderson] - THANK YOU to the KINGS and QUEENS that have educated you in TRUTH! The mass majority doesn't even know that they are living a Willie Lynch lifestyle, programmed by his agendas
[ondre anderson] - How many of you ladies have sons? And how many of you ladies, raising boys to become men instill in them the basic principles of leadership.......or are you too busy chasing your own selfish agendas....all while perpetuating the same vicious cycles into your lineage. Wake Up
[jeremy suggs] - Herein is the problem. They're too many women trying to tell kings how to be kings and not focused on how to be queens. When I look at this post that's what I see. Example, when I was taught chess we took queens off the board. Why? Because if you depended on that power they became a liability moreso than an asset. Live for you first. Last time I checked, women outnumber us three to one. Which means were the commodity.
[jeremy suggs] - I agree. But maybe you shouldn't cater to the boys
[brite eyes henry-channer] - I don't cater to boys...am 19 if I must say...but I have. Grown ass mind..