Does it bother you if your bf/gf looks at another person and say he/she is sexy?
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Does it bother you if your bf/gf looks at another person and say he/she is sexy?
(Type: status | Published: 2013-11-29T00:00:00+0000)
[kaleigh phoung] - Yes...because he should make me feel like I'm the only one he sees in the room...
[mary detrick] - Yes that is wrong and unfaithful.
[sharon halk] - Nope. If you think your guy never looks or thinks another girl is sexier, then you're an idiot. If he's afraid to tell you because you're insecure, how are you ever going to fully trust each other? There are always going to be younger, sexier women (& men) out there and acknowledging it doesn't mean you're unhappy with who you're with, but you are more likely to be unhappy with someone you can't be yourself with or honest with.
[nikki retzlaff] - I don't care if he looks, he's not dead...but it's disrespectful & unnecessary to make a comment. I don't do that to him when I see a sexy guy.
[sarah crossland] - It's not about being human or not so we should stop using the excuse to justify our actions. Neither is it an insecurity issue. Personally, why would you go look at another in that sense if you're happy in your relationship? You have someone in your life already. If he/she isn't good enough to be the only one to hold your gaze then that's an issue.
[gina calmelat-fowler] - Hell yez!! He shld b single if he wna continue 2 browse.....
[trisha stocker griggs] - Yes!!!!! Especially if they don't say it to you?'!
[roxy beaulieu] - Yes I feel it's disrespectful
[rose addamo] - My ex used to do it all the time!
Not only look but be in contact with them, and letting the women say "I love you" to him.
He would never correct them, by saying he was in a relationship.
I think it's disrespectful and down right rude.
[yesi delgado] - Yes I do mind!!!! If you think other girls are sexy, than what the fuck are you doing dating me!!! That's my point of view. ;)
[lauren logan] - Being insecure has nothing to do with it....it's called respect so hell yeah imma be mad
[leisa dianne campbell] - finding another person sexy if you are in a committed relationship shows sexual attraction. and that's wrong. saying someone is handsome or pretty is one thing. but sexy is quite diferent. he who looketh apon a woman and lust after her in his heart has already committed adultery.
[austin coburn] - Is it going to benefit your relationship? No!
[corina scott] - Depends on the relationship. If ur with a man that doesn't tell u that often it stings having him feel like that about another woman.
[jade coffey] - It's hurtful. To me if you say that in front of your spouse, it's like openly saying what you want them to look like. It's unhealthy because then your spouse will believe they have to achieve this nonexistent perfection so you won't call anyone sexy but them. Point is, keep it to yourself! Same reason most girls don't just go on saying how sexy a guy is in front of her man, it's hurtful and unwanted.
[christiana chicchirichi] - No. Women, and men need to realize that your significant other is going to look. You know that you look. It's habit. As long as you don't act on it, no harm is done.
[frank rangel] - hell yeah it bothers me...its totally disrespectful to your other half...your eyes are for your other half only
[german estrada] - What a lack of morals if you do that to your partner
[travis downs] - So i guess to some of you when your with some you are supposed to just wear a blind fold cause you shouldnt find anybody else sexy or beautiful or handsome etc.... give me a break. If your that insecure about yourself than you need to fix that problem before you even think about engaging in a realtionship with anyone. Oh and by the way its not cheating jesus lol if thats the case everyone on earth cheats everyday several times. Passs out the rubber gloves so we can cover our eyes for protection. Beauty is beauty you cant help looking its in our nature period weather straight gay married or whatever. If you are drooling and going on and on about it than thats an entire diff issue but looking and making comment no. Some complaining cause your partner isnt saying your sexy or hot etc.... well do something about it or seek their perference of clothes or shoes etc... my wife and I do that and we have been together for 20years and i fall in love everyday even more with her reguards if she finds a man sexy or etc.... lol. Rather hear her be open about stuff than hide it think about it, not like shes jumping his bones in the shopping cart at walmart. Ok im done sorry for the length
[robbie faye] - Yes it is disrespectful. Everyone is gonna look from time to time and think someone is sexy but when you verbalize it to your partner it is wrong.
[angie marie cordero] - Alot of ya females sayin it wont bother you are prob the ones to get cheated on just sayin... not only is it disrespectful its a red flag tht ya shud watch ya men ...
[briana escamilla] - Yes. Your significant other shouldn't be looking at anyone with lust other than you. On some level it's considered cheating. It's okay to call someone pretty or give a kind compliment. But not hot or sexy... If I was with someone, I wouldn't be calling another guy hot. It's just how I was brought up. Some may not agree with me on this, but everyone has their own way of looking at this.
[shelby duquette] - It's disrespectful plain and simple. I get bothered by seeing the size 0 half naked bimbos photos on fb he likes. Like hello.. that's not anything close to me. Makes me feel that much more insecure.
[kindra gripp godwin] - If its a celebrity on TV, no. A random person walking down the street, yes.
[ryan bailey] - This needs more context, there is a time and a place for everything.
However, my initial raction is No doesn't bother me at all, if I am so insecure that that would bother me it would be a problem within myself.
I used to ask what they thought of who, and why, it gave me a gage of what they find attractive, if I can't accept that they are human and are able to see beauty, and cannot appreciate that aspect of them, then that means I cannot appreciate them fully.
If I was so insecure that the simple action of checking someone out and having the respect enough to tell me that I was threatened by it so much that I would think they would leave me, I shouldn't be in a relationship.
The problem is, is that people treat relationships like their significant other is their possession, that's not really love though, its slavery, a desire to control someone so much that they are not allowed to look at things I don't want them to, or talk to people. To me that sounds like hell not love. I would not want to do that to anyone and hate it if it's done to me, it's unhealthy and a fast way to completely ruin a relationship.
Fortunately I am secure enough to do my best at not being that ugly on the inside. I do not want control, I want love, and of course with all things in relationships communication is key.
Back to how I started, there is a time and place for everything, we wouldn't want the wrong timing to cause issues, you wouldn't want to go do it on a date, but opening the discussion is healthy, I like to explore my girlfriend's sexuality in full, including what she is attracted to, and once I have that I can even point people out.
[tashina schimming baxter] - We're all going to see other people who are attractive, yes. To go out of your way to verbally speak about another's appearance, especially in a "sexy" sense, in my opinion, isn't beneficial to the relationship. To cultivate an amazing relationship, you've got to be focused on the individual you're pursuing a relationship with, with all you've got. Pointing out that someone other than your partner is "sexy" just does not help to cultivate your relationship. Period.
[ashleigh gordon] - theres nothing worse then being with ur bf or gf and thier head nearly falling off thier shoulders perving on someone else it ruins your self esteem I think its disrespectful.
[lunch box] - If she's not calling me hot or sexy, I def don't want to hear about anyone else!
[kristina fazekasova] - Would it bother him if I say the same thing to a another guy?
[debbie shurtleff] - I think it is disrespectful.
[rych bouker] - Listen people at the end of the day your partner eyes should be on you not no one else and it's disrespectful for one to comment on it while your partner is there I would never do that to my wife don't care if she think it's ok or not
[courtney wright olson] - I don't have a problem my moto is you can look at the menu but you can't order
[jason prokop] - If you really love someone you should only have eyes for that person
[lora lilmsitaly] - Its disrespectful to the relationship
[sandy long hoffman] - I am comfortable in my own skin and I know who I am. I don't think its what they say, but its def a reflection of what kind of person THEY are to say it to a committed partner!
[tabatha king hartsell] - All u people sayin u dont care know u fuckin do... So stop trying to act like u dont...
[james bruhn] - I think some things you should just keep to yourself.
[dan cline] - Of course not.. I can't be the ONLY sexy man in this world... it's bound to happen.
[lorrie ann jimenez] - They shouldn't look at another person in that way doesn't mean your immature or insecure, you should have enough respect and love for your spouse/significant other too have eyes for them and them only. Now celebs don't count!
[joanie trotman alaina] - In front of me yes,disrespectful!!!
[felicia silva] - I feel if he's with me it's insulting. I don't need to know what he thinks of the girls around us. He's dating me, he should be complimenting me not other women.
[jeremy day] - Worst feeling in the world. I should be good enough, and the only one they're looking at in that way. I know there are a lot of beautiful people in the world, but when I am with someone, she is the only one I see.
[miranda ann branstner] - Looking is one thing, commenting is another. Not everyone wants to hear or know your opinions.
[brandie schmitt] - Everybody looks. BUT if they break their neck lookin or are like damnnnnn! That's when the back of my hand pops up
[rawkiie debralee moreno] - nope .. be secure on who u r with ...
[keith baumgart] - Whether it bothers me or not it is very disrespectful
[sarah m. davis] - Yes. Thts very disrespectful. Id slap him & go kiss a hot guy right in front of my man if my man did tht!!
[stretch michelle] - I would poke him in his eyeball !!!!!!!!!
[sarah nicole wentling] - I think it shows an incredible amount of insecurity to be upset if your partner acknowledges someone else's beauty. I'll admit If a chic is hot or if another dude is good looking. If I bring it up everyday for a week then obviously that's a problem lol
[tammy seitz scales] - YES! If your married or in a relationship with someone that is the only one you should be telling they are sexy, beautiful, hot, or that any guy would want them....etc. That is disrespectful to the person you are with. And honestly if saying that to someone else then it means nothing to the person you are with when you say it to them because obviously its not special for that person.
Relationship Rules: Does it bother you if your bf/gf looks at another person and say he/she is sexy? - 50th Comments
[js tunes] - Telling me someone else is sexy without me asking is disrespectful and rude. I wouldn't do it to him either. Now of course if we ask each other, no harm no foul. I don't understand people's confusion with security and respect. I guess overcompensating?
[matthew williamson] - Yes. Even celebrities. I mean I get it, I find other people physically attractive too, and don't want to date them per say, but I feel like it's inconsiderate to say in front of someone you're dating. You can't help but compare yourself. Also I don't really give it a thought of someone else if I'm happy with the person I am with. with celebrities it's same thing as when men look at models and women are made to feel bad that they don't look like that. Not all of us are tall, dark, and handsome.
[photos-by vickie] - No it doesn't because my husband would never disrespect me like that, at least not in front of me
[makeda mcdonald] - Everyone notices if sometimes attractive but I think it's completely disrespectful to make note of it to your partner. I respect the other person so I don't comment and I expect the same respect back.
[emmy witmer-borden] - Emm Kylan Beaulieu if you're looking at the menu, you obviously hate your diet lol
[kajean anabella salinas] - I would probably agree with him lol
[julie garcia] - Hell ya.. keep that shit to ur-self
[brittany kay brown] - No.. You're in a relationship not blind..
[megan hansen] - If you're in a secure relationship it shouldn't.
[tracie o'connor] - Well, looking is normal, we are human, however making it obvious or commenting is very disrespectful.
[alexandra woelfel] - Only if he.never compliments.me
[heidi wolff] - Yeah...sometimes. I think it is tacky, insensitivit...and down right disrespectful.
[sabrina davis] - I don't see any issue unless theirs insecurities in the relationship. I don't mind it at all. I usually point out the sexy women lol. As long as he is loving me right and not being disrespectful, what's wrong with appreciating beautiful people?
[laura loray tyner] - Nope not at all. As long as they share the view. I wanna look too lol
[jameela barnes] - And it's not about being jealous. It's about being disrespectful. If you are out with your significant other and you let it be known that you are not focusing on them but on every piece of tail that walks by then that man or woman does not respect you.
[paula little] - It hurts..makes u feel invisible.your self esteem goes low.hello im over here!!especially when u have done all u can to get his attention and still he looks and denies it on top of it..that just pisses me off..it hurts..if u say your in love with someone why would u want to look?? U wouldn't want to look at anybody else..
[martha valdes] - Thats hell of disrespectf
[tonya seward] - It's not ok, that would be very hurtful and to the person who said the comment about jealous girls, there is nothing wrong with a little jealousy, it means u dont want to lose the person ur with and that u don't want them thinking of other people the way they think of u.
[estrella pishposh celis] - Of course it does the person your with should never have a wondering eye there only focus should be you and only you
[jessica lonkey] - The way I see it, if I'm with the right person, I wouldn't be finding other people attractive anyway.
[tim jarrard] - yes its very hurtfull specially when you dont look the way the other person does its got nothing to do with inscure its outta respect yes look but don't undress them and say there sexy That's to far
[amber lively] - Yes.. Thats very disrespectful to your other half..
[kenna staar] - Sometimes. ..it makes me feel like I'm not sexy enough for him if he has to look at other women.
[nick melville] - Yes. If I had a gf, and she said that kind of shit to another guy, I would be pissed.
[domonique williams] - It's best to not say anything at all to avoid arguments
[benny nava] - Every girl that says "no" on this question is a God Damn liar. Or looks at guys herself so she doesn't care
[rachael phillips] - Yes!! To me, that's the same thing as saying "I'd tap that". People here saying it's "normal"....yes, it's normal to still find other people attractive while you're dating someone, but you still shouldn't act on it by telling your significant other that another guy/girl is sexy.
[jadee marie] - Yeah it would bother me. -_- You're in a relationship. No reason to call other girls sexy..
[rhonda-lisa wk] - Ladies and gentlemen...you wonder why your husband or wife or bf or gf keep things from you, can't speak their true feelings or communicate? Why would it bother me if my loving, honest and faithful bf just mentions that someone is sexy? Big deal. He still thinks I'm the best. Grow up...stop the insecurity...its the biggest turnoff.
[danielle richardson] - yes,it does bother me. i feel like,if he's with me then he should only be always looking @ me/complimenting me! Besides,i think that is very disrespectful for a committed man to look at/compliment another female!
[myrelis raiderette leon] - @Angela Lovee, that may not always be. So, if the man is with me, that comment better not come out of his mouth unless he wants all his teeth jammed down his throat.
[debbie swinney] - Nope...I agree w him most of the time...I'm always saying "look babe..she's pretty, sexy, whatever" lol
[krystle joey dillon dawson] - Yes it bothers me cause I'm the one he is suppose to love and be attracted too.I think its disrespectful.
[melissa whalen] - Good lord. The other person is only human. Just because they end up with you doesn't mean they become blind all of a sudden. I would rather be open enough to hear if they find someone attractive. At least he's not hiding who he is, and can be honest with me.
[jameela barnes] - No. That's disrespectful. We may look at someone on tv and casually say "oh she's pretty. " but as for him saying "that girl is sexy! " while we're out in public, no. My husband has respect for me as do i him.
[amanda clement] - I check out other woman all the time and point them out to my husband. I am not the hottest woman on earth and neither are the woman i point out. There will always be a hotter. True love is on the inside. My husband loves me i think he is beyond sexy other women may not think so oh well. I check out other men. No big deal. All i want is my husband and my family. Its ok to look just not touch
[rehpotsirhc nat] - Won't even take a glance coz the most gorgeous girl is walking beside me. Hand in hand. Fong Meihar
[brenda mcmurtrey] - He doesn't do that. If he did it would bother me. Its tacky and insensitive.
[christina joan] - All you bitches are lyin hell ya it does if your with me u better only be lustin on... ME. Nucca
[naomi begay] - Yes. I think a couples eyes should have eyes only for eachother. No one else. :)
[elisha lloyd] - Yes, because he doesn't tell me or make me feel like I am.
Once he can appreciate me and what he has in me, he can appreciate other women.
[coretta hon] - Yes it would bother me because aren't they suppose to think that of u and not someone else i trust my man but that would still hurt my self esteem a lil bit
[chantell presbury] - I used to point sexy ladies out to my exes and in turn they wouldn't mind me having a little look.. We always went home with each other and to me sexy is just a term but when he/she calls you beautiful that should make your day because that truly means something.. Sexy is just looking on the outside, beautiful is inside too..
[nikki hine] - People should be more careful with words they do affect the subconscious mind even if consciously they say it doesn't bother them they will also affect their actions. If you are mutually committed to someone & truly are in love I believe you only see them that way & beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
[heidi filipiak] - Only if im not getting the same compliment on the regular...
[samantha eason] - We just want to find someone who has eyes for us, and us only.
It's a horrible feeling knowing that the person you love / like has feelings for someone else. Especially if the relationship isn't as perfect as it once was.
[rob regalia iii] - If my girl says that about someone on tv or movies it's fine but In person, that's a no go
[mi-chele kings-charles] - No! He has eyes and there's nothing wrong with admiring a thing of beauty. At the end of the day he's going home with you. Try turning the tables, point out a sexy gent, now if he can't take it, time for discussion.
[esther mccartney] - Yes, and NOBODY deserves to be with a person like that!
[kimbe ebanks] - yes because me should be the only one he see in a crowd of a million
Relationship Rules: Does it bother you if your bf/gf looks at another person and say he/she is sexy? - 100th Comments
[ally peterson] - my fiance and i are usually checking out the same women and he doesnt get in trouble. we usually compared what we liked about her lol. and anyway there is a difference between noting someone who obviously takes the time to be noticed and appreciating the work and ogling a woman making it clear you would rather sleep with them. i appreciate beauty and like seeing a woman who takes care of herself and makes an effort to show it. you cant expect your guy to never look at another human being. my guy doesnt get upset when i notice a good looking guy. we both know that we are attracted to each other and nothing is going to change that.
[anahita persian] - yesssssssssssssssssss, its bother me alot
[lisa inskeep-hammond] - Nah I like 2 b able 2 look at other girls with my girl. I know she's goin home with me n she knows I'm goin home with her. Insecurities will wreck a relationship! !! If ur both secure with urselves n with ur relationship then there is no harm in appreciating beauty 2gether
[klara pisciotta] - Nah cuz he only says it about a celebrity. I do it too, but worse. Lol. But if its someone in person yea it bothers me. He never has tho to my face.
[nikole marie marek] - no because i am absolutely secure in my relationship..
[sharon halk] - It's rude when a guy tells his girl she should dress a certain way or lose weight or use make up or anything else that might make his woman doubt his devotion to her. I can see how women that aren't sure he is happy with them, getting upset when he looks at or comments on someone else. But that has more to do with the woman's feelings about herself & her relationship. Don't give your heart or time to someone that makes you feel less than whether he looks at others or not.
[juan ramirez] - Relationships are built on trust. For there to be trust, there must be honesty. We all crave honesty from our partners. If you get jealous it is ok, as long as there is no anger, when you get angry because the one you love is honest with you. You are teaching them to be deceitful. Then you start to doubt what they say and the venom begins to seep into your relationship.
[sarah jane briggs] - Only if it was someone they interact with when I'm not around. If it's a random girl on the street or someone on tv I'll either agree or disagree but don't feel threatened. I have more trouble with "just friends" that men claim aren't attractive when I can see that they're gorgeous. I scoff at the line my ex used to use ("but not as hot as you, baby") because usually that was a load of crap but I'm pretty confident that my man would never give me reason to be concerned. I know how much he loves me ;-)
[shanice mcabee] - yepp if your not lookin at me then you shouldn't be with me, its not insecure its respect enough not to have a wondering eye and society makes it seem like an insecurity to some because they might be that girl who will do anything to seem like the 'perfect girl'. nope fuck that you get jealous too just too scared to admit it.
[nicole purves] - Yes, disrespectful...esp if ur man stopped complimenting there you....to many guys take there gf for granted.
[nekael msprofessional deloa] - Not if they are on tv! Haha
[evelyn romero] - YES!!!!!!! He can only tell me im sexy the rest may be good looking but he can keep his mouth shut!
[tania mondon] - Go be with the person you think is sexy then?! lol
[jenifer ferreyra brindis] - Sarah M. Davis yeah I'd be mad too, cause I'm a jealous type, but you just admitted you'd watch for a hot guy, so no better than the disrespectful man also at least in that scenario he didn't act apon it while you said you would have. I'd perfere letting him know he has made me feel disrespected, good men try to fix the problem in order to keep a good relationship of love and respect. If you have a bad man than... well... no comment
[letta hawk jackson] - I don't get jealous, but I do find it disrespectful.
[lori tutt sexton] - Not as long as he looks at me n says but baby ur sexier.
[brittney scott] - Cute is one thing but I want to be the only beautiful sexy girl in your life..... Just saying
[lettie hall] - No. I know my husband loves me. You can look as long as you do not touch.
[michelle maleny villarreal] - Is not right. But if he Looks at other at least don't tell me
[heidi e. perry] - Yes....absolutely believe that is disrespectful.....
[khoo er yang] - I mean as long as just look and nothing more after that I don't mind.. Btw what is your comment on this Cheah Su Ai :)
[khoo er yang] - It doesn't bother me if u say it infront of me..and I would rather u say it infront of me than keeping to yourself..and besides as long as it's nothin more than just saying I wouldn't mind Cheah Su Ai
[destiny marie] - I agree it's disrespectful!
[taesia barry] - Everyone's gonna look but saying they're sexy is taking it a lil to far. Especially in front of you lol
[angelia rose] - If it's a celebrity or something, then no. If it's some random person or someone that he or I or both of us know, then fuck yes.
[kristopher kellenberger] - Yes until I meet someone new. Lol
[steven donaldson] - This is pretty much the same as saying you just mentally had sex with that person over there.
[ray j camacho] - Maybe a tiny bit. But why would I really care?? What's the point of getting bent outta shape??? She's with me. We can both look all we want but as long as they stay faithful then that's all that matters :)
[genna kohls] - Its normal for everyone to find someone other than your sig other cute or pretty. Honesty is good though not that I enjoy hearing about who's pretty. But being attracted to them and thinking they are sexy is borderline. You shouldn't be thinking of them in that way if you're in a committed relationship with someone you love. He should be more focused on you and telling yoy how attractive you are.
[tariq salaam] - Sexy implies sex so hell yes! I get that we are human thus we notice attractive people outside of our chosen mates. It not what you say but how you say it ,,,,referring to another individual as "sexy" is the wrong way to communicate that someone is attractive.
[carolyn pulit] - Nope, I know he thinks I'm the sexiest woman he knows so for him to admire someone else is just fine :)
[stephanie bonilla] - Looking is looking but when u say something about some1 else in that way that is just plain rude and wrong and obviously if ur partner says that about some1 else they r looking with interest and not just looking
[travis downs] - Wow after reading alot of these comments damn im feel good about my wife. Sounds like some crazy jelous ****** up in here. Some say its cheating wow blows my mind lol*smh
[travis downs] - Nope cause i know she is mine same both ways. Cant help to look at beauty
[tiffany cross] - Yes. It's fine if you find others attractive, but keep it to yourself.
[katelynn pierson] - Um if the person is famous...no...if not..yes
[hollynken platt] - Totally comfortable, we will point them out to each other
[ellyn vetera] - Extremely disrespectful.
[shelly mcghie] - Yes bcuz nothing like that is ever said to me
[e'nice junebug roberts] - No respect for your partner.
[kelly tackett] - I think sexy is a bit too much and disrespectful. Maybe "really pretty" or "handsome." Not sexy, hot, or fine. That shit is whackk. Lol
[frances elizabeth henderson] - Yes! You may think someone is attractive, but the only person my significant other as sexy is me.
[christina marie murphy] - Yes! Im the only one my husband should be callin sexy it not right sayin that about another person
[kelly mckirdie] - yes i think its rude!
[marisa jimenez] - Yes it does cause I feel like I might not be good enough, but I try to deal with it as best as I could
[leshea p. munoz] - No...because God made everyone different. Each has their own qualities and bonuses. I look just as much as my man does...regardless of the sex of the person. If a girl is HOT. ..she's hot! I usually see THEM before he does. Be confident in ones self and be rest assured of ur own individual beauty!
[kira montes] - That would make me furious.. Even if it didn't make me mad, it's extremely disrespectful. It's one thing if it's someone of the same gender and they're acknowledging that they're attractive.. But another chick? Nope. Not okay haha.
[valerie maret] - yes. sexy is a term that should only be described when referring to your partner. Male or female. I understand he is going to look, that's his nature. However, the only things I'm okay with him saying about another woman is cute, pretty or beautiful. Sexy means he is searching in a sexual manner and I find that very inappropriate and disrespectful.
[kimberly jean keeler] - No, it's disrespectful to the one they are with...
[jamaan d. hogan-bryant] - I used to. I grew and learned vanity only last for a while. Yea she can think a person is sexy but I look at it as she here with me with perks.
Relationship Rules: Does it bother you if your bf/gf looks at another person and say he/she is sexy? - 150th Comments
[crystal sánchez] - I guess though depends on the contexts and the moment.
[crystal sánchez] - Yes that is disrespectful
[reginald hooker] - no it doesn't bother me or my fiance when we say that bout other people yes we can look but we cant touch an yes we trust each other alot not to do anything bout it.as my fiance puts it an its true yes i say he is hot or sexy doesnt mean i want to have sex with him thats what my fiance says so no it doesn't bother me or her at all.just dont say it all the time cause thats when your partner may think something is wrong
[sheri boardwine trivett] - Omg yes. He may say she's pretty but to say he's sexy. No. He better not. That's damn rude. How would he like to know what I see and like. But I have enough sense to keep it to myself.
I know we naturally notice others but to say 'she's sexy' that's to far.
[travis downs] - Denise Vasquez nothing to do with morals u same type that trust nobody and thinks everyone is trying to screw anybody. My wife points women out to me more than i do so just saying. I must say she is the finest most beautiful woman ive ever seen period so dont lecture me on morals dont wanna hear from low self esteem ppl
[christina marie babin] - I usually point them out for my husband n get mad when he don't catch the person I'm wantin him to check out
[frank ortiz] - Hope not cause I'll be doing the same lmao long as I know they're wit me then I got something.
[kristina marie] - No, because I know he does it behind my back. On Facebook or at work. Just how life is. Aslong as he doesn't go as far as cheating than no idc .
[clarisabel rosario rivero] - It reallyy dependddsss... Some men do it and they re disrespectful abou it. Me as a confident woman ill be dang shes sexy n ill laugh but if my man is all eyes then theres a problem.... Is all about respect. . Theres always someone as sexy if not sexier than u anywhere.....
[mary elliott] - No, I don't see a problem with it. They are going to look, and even I look, too. As long as you are secure within yourself, neither one of you act on it, and you make sure the other one knows you think they are attractive, then it doesn't matter. Look all you want, but at the end of the day, you are choosing to be with the person you are with, not the other person. Quite frankly, I would much rather him say something so I at least know he is lookin, then for me to sit there and not know because I know dang well that everybody looks, regardless of how much you love the person you're with. I love my bf, we've been together over 4 years and I can't see myself with anybody else. But, that doesn't mean I'm dead and can't appreciate an attractive person when I see one, and the same goes for him. It's called be secure in your relationship and knowing no matter if you look or he looks, you two have chosen each other to be with and obviously you find them attractive, too.
[jacqueline steinert] - Nope! Not in the least I'm a very confident secure woman....
[janet reed] - People aren't insecure until things like this happen.
[brittany nicole breaux] - Hell yea its rude to me
[marcellus beasley] - Yes it does. We all know we check out other people but I consider it disrespectful to announce it... now that's not to say that two people of each one is okay can't do it but unless its discussed I don't like it.
[vanessa hernandez] - We both do it together
[emily anne lumb] - I don't mind if says there pretty not sexy. At the end of my day my baby is with me. He chose to be with me. I love my fiance.
[rachael zakos] - Or same sex whichever you prefer !
[crystal payton] - We all have eyes
[rachael zakos] - No it's human nature to admire the opposite sex !
[obie allstar jones] - To be 100 it bother's everybody people are a little bit insecure there will always be some guy who is more handsome there will always be a women with a bangin body and(or) beautiful but you have to think is that what you need? Which brings me to my answer and it may seem condescending but as long as he or she doesn't make it more than it is or act on it then it shouldn't be a problem
[sayantan debnath] - obviously it hurts
[paris i. niles] - Not really. But to hear it constantly about the same person, that's when I began to get irritable.
[karen ortiz] - Yes i dnt think they need to say oh shes sexy or that bitch is bad or w.e keep it to urself if u look u look if u open ur mouth about it is disrespectful n u have no consideration for your girl
[elizabeth rhodes] - yeah it kinda hurts
[jeremy mcdonald] - Nope. I'm secure enough with myself not to care.
[kent clark] - I hope i can teach my self not to worry about it..
[julisa flores] - No. I can appreciate a good looking person whether it is a male or female! N I want to believe that I'm not insecure
[michele bodle] - As long as he was respectful about it..it's normal to find other people attractive..we are ok with verbally expressing that..that is as far as it goes..I trust him..he trusts me!!! I'm not insecure..he's in bed with me every night!!
[liz ridgway] - I don't care if he looks, but I don't wanna here about it.
[heather schramm] - looking is fine but comments no...if u wanna say it go be with her
[jessica glenn] - My fiance has never said that to me about another girl.. but if he did I might get slightly annoyed but i'm not gonna blatantly start a fight over it... everday he tells me how beautiful I am and how much he is in love with me so I know where he is going to be at night.. in our house loving/hugging/kissing me and giving me his attention.. not any other woman
[kristy marie] - not at all. if it does then you are insecure and probably don't trust him/her
[eva zelaya] - If he doesnt call me pretty compliment me or give me that kind of attention its not okay
[amber rodda] - It did ...until I realized he could never get with them....lol <3 love you babe
[amanda haney] - Not at all everyone finds ppl attractive at the end of the day its me hes huggin kissin showin attention to and everything else and no matter how many sexy ppl r out there he still tells me im sexy its just human nature to b attracted to other ppl dont mean u have to act on it
[nicole eliza marshall] - Usually not. If I start it first then he'll think it's a trick question... I think it's funny haha
[angela chandler] - Depends on how far they take it
[ivon alfaro] - Who the hell is gonna be ok with it even if your comfortable with yourself and know your a good guy or girl. Inn Fuck no you can think it but you can't say it in front of our faces. It's rude that just shows what type of guy or girl your with..
[brittany akers] - In a way it does because I always wonder what makes him compliment her and not me and then I start to feel insecure about myself. It's different if it is a celebrity because I know that it's a fantasy but when it's a woman that he can see in front of him makes me feel insecure.
[marianne régnier] - I think that sexy is not the Word , i think you can say that she beautifull or just she got a cute smile , but sexy is too ... I wanna fuck her.
[gabriella colleen pithoud] - yes. its disrespectful.
[lawuana anderson] - YES DISRESPECTFUL!!!! HE BETTER SAY N LOOK/LUST WEN IM NOT AROUND....
[avril kirsten ní chuinn] - Yes of course it is, I personally think, doesn't mean everyone else has to think it's wrong :-) everyone is there own person and it's up to them wether they think it or not
[kymberly mulling] - Its disrespectful and hurtful
[rebecca lynn clouse] - No. It is normal human nature.
[samuel velez] - fuck oath thats just inconsiderate and un loyal.
[sandra duggin] - Nope, cuz I know he loves me and I keep him happy :)
[naomi lucero] - Nope! Bc they are coming home to me
[catlin noel sprague] - uh, yes. that would be disrespectful.
[reta yruegas medrano] - No. Beauty is to be admired...
Relationship Rules: Does it bother you if your bf/gf looks at another person and say he/she is sexy? - 200th Comments
[krystle gregory] - If your comfortable with your relationship and have trust, it shouldn't bother you or he/she.
[jazmin nicole williamson] - No. It's not bad to acknowledge another persons beauty. As long as they don't do anything physically inappropriate. But whatever. Got damn. Get rid of your insecurities people!
[a.j. sorvillo] - It did when I got ostracized for not saying it. What's wrong with saying I'd rather be with you?
[shaletia long] - Take his damn eyes out with a damn Tablespoon!
[beverly ann kilburn] - Yes! It's disrespectful.
[lauschane ray] - Nope not at all. Hell I may say it too lol
[klaudia zawadowicz] - No its human nature. Everyone does it and ur a liar if u.don't
[eva hanley redmond] - No harm in Window shopping, just keep the mouth shut and the hands off :) less arguments then :)
[erin flanagan] - Ehh... If theres an attractive woman, he's gonna notice her, I can't keep him from looking... If he decides to mention it, theres a pretty good chance that I'll notice her and laugh with him...
[kazza weeks] - No it doesn't cause I know my man wouldn't,t cheat on me it's ok to look and say if someone looks sexy or not
[meghann capodanno] - It is pretty annoying...
[tia darnell] - I often point them out to him.
[missy hopkins] - No as long as they don't take it any farther than that!
[clara rosas] - It's *all* about insecurity if you can't handle that your bf finds others attractive.
[lonnie damiano] - Nope Cuz I know he's coming home with me Cuz he loves this P....just saying lol
[michele kelly] - No they can look cant stop that but not touch and id like knowing rather than them hiding it
[angela henderson-veath] - No. Although I guess it depends upon the context. Generally though, no.
[chris thesupersaiyan] - Shouldnt of said anything at all. :0
[mohamed zedan] - then i will give her box at the face to change the corners of hers
[sarai urenda] - I tottaly agree with the people that said is disrespectful because if your in a relationship theres a good reason you chose to be with that one person out all the people in this world so I think is really disrespectful from both sides and if you agree with that than somehow your kind of giving your partner the hint that its okay to do that and its going to be okay do other things too and thats when your not goin to like it and things could go overboard and problems start!
[jennifer luna] - No!! Look but don't touch. And if I see her before him I tell him to look! Lol
[cloakie kurokke] - Not "sexy" even, but I'm PISSED when my bf likes the photos of girls that he claims he finds gross (like chubby, etc). I don't care if he's just being "nice", but if he likes that I'm skinny and that I care about my weight, I don't want to see/ hear him validating people for NOT caring about their bodies. Like why should you care at all if I'm skinny then?
[mary donovan] - no b/c he will never actually meet Kaley Cuocco in real life
[ashleigh stevens] - No way, my husband and I always ask each other if someone is 'hot or not'. We are very comfortable talking about it :)
[margo lee watson] - Its rude and childish.
[ecstacy furubayashi] - Nah. I'll just do the same thing
[romain montulet] - mm no its ok. i think is not by only words you would made the difference. you can say the icecream test good but still eating donuts... if you love her and if she love you then it HAS NO WORRYS TO MAKE !!!